At this point, you have learned quite a bit about the being gay. Congrats on reaching this point.
Ultimately, this is your life decision to make. You have two options:
You can either come out and live life (because nobody cares).
You can be “gay” behind closed doors i.e. DL (down low). I can’t tell you what to do in this decision because there are so many people in the world with so many different situations that it is hard to nail it down.
The problem with DL men is that they can’t see themselves being labeled as “gay”. The picture is of a man who love a man but living a double life. Even with hetrosexuals, there are men who love woman and pussy, but also love men on the side. (It is very real!)
I personally think being DL is a drama filled situation that is about to explode in their face. Who gets hurt in the end? Both parties. The unfulfillment of not having someone and not feeling happy with yourself. It is painful and I know the men out there are struggling with this battle everyday.
Some people have to be gay behind closed doors because of their career: Singers, actors, officers, government, etc; the list goes on and on. This is a stigma that a “gay” can’t be above adversity. Contrary to popular demand, people have sex with whoever they want to and you my friend will never know.
Also, their are gay men living their life away from their “aggressive families”. These are the ones that are DL with family only because if the family knew he was gay, they would disown him or kill him.
We will touch on that in Part 2. For now, ponder on the route YOU want to take to happiness.
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