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P.S.A. [Video] –When a Man Loves YOU

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Time and time again, both hetrosexual and homosexual: when you really love someone you feel it.

Not the feeling that you have for them but you can feel and SEE how they treat you.

Enough said!

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G.Y.M. Week 10–A True Gay Journey

It has been a pleasure to reach out to my wonderful young gay men.
These post, I know will be forever in the loop of time and there for you when you need them.

I will always be here as a mentor to uplift you and bring you positive energy to your world as I know how hard it can be to understand the “gay community” as a whole. Just know you have a friend in need.

I encourage you to find your voice within yourself and be yourself over all things. Live your dreams and be happy. Love thy self always!

It is now time for me to move on to another endeavor of my own…..publishing my books!

My fantasy drama will be out later this year, Fall 2017. Changes in his Veins.

My gay drama book will be out in 2018! Be prepared, lots of deception & drama in stored! 

To recap the movement,

  1. Week : Gay Youth Movement 
    1. You learned who I am and the journey WE are taking together.
  2. Week 2: Coming to Terms
    1. You learned about learning who you are; within yourself.
  3. Week 3: Exploring the Itch
    1. You learned about reacting on your thoughts and the urge in-between your legs.
  4. Week 4: Being Bullied
    1. This time we dive into a topic that almost every gay has encountered growing up.
  5. Week 5: DL vs Coming Out Part 1
    1. We touch base on DL men and possibly coming out.
  6. Week 6: Gay Sex Basics
    1. The sexual aspect of being gay.
  7. Week 7: Coming Out Part 2-VIDEO
    1. Different ways to come out
    2. Plus my coming out video from long time ago.
  8. Week 8: Gay Apps and Catfishing
    1. You learned about the many gay apps and things to look out for
    2. Catfishing is real; be safe and cautious.
  9. Week 9: What Gay are You?
    1. You was given a fresh list of the many communities within the male side of the gay community.
    2. Have you found yourself yet?
  10.  Week 10: Be yourself, love yourself, and live your dreams.

I am sure there is something I missed in the process but I am always here in case you may have questions, concerns, fears, don’t have anyone to talk to, you are scared for whatever reason, I don’t care. A closed mouth doesn’t get feed.

Don’t forget to find me on all social media under the tag Infamouskalel and Mjking !

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G.Y.M. Week 9 -What Gay are you?

Let’s have some fun this week. You will never know what gay are you until you have experienced something in the previous post. To give you a taste, let’s dive in.
Firstly, know your gaydar! This goes back to a previous post about knowing body movements and mannerisms. This will help you understand if someone is gay. (That’s for all you hetrosexuals people lurking about as well; knowledge is power)

Moving forward, What gay are you?
  • Just Gay: a normal gay man just living his life; not in the “scene” or on apps but does social media every now and again. He is about his personal growth.
  • Gym Bunny: This guy is usually thick headed and spends majority of his day thinking about working out and actually working out. He usually works at the gyms.
  • Stud Gay: This guy workouts, has a swimmers build. This guy is every example in porn. A guy with light muscles and a nice booty.
  • Frat Guy: This is a college guy. He is apart of his frat and likes dudes, drinking beer and sports.
  • Suit and Tie: The corporate guy with all the success.
  • Gaymer: The guy is mostly into his games and playing with other gamers. Usually will play with anyone gay or straight. A pretty normal geekish guy.
  • Geekish Gay: A guy who likes anything weird with sci-fi characters, superheros, comic cons, etc. Usually relates best with gamers.
  • Country Guy: The southern guy or Texan, that loves the outdoors, farms, hat, boots, and getting dirty. Usually has an accent and does things the natural way.
  • “Virgin” gay: This is a small guy, twink size, who lies about being a virgin but gets done every other night.
  • Twinks: This guy is very small and skinny. Usually weights less than 120 lbs; smooth body. Can be easily found in porns.
  • Scene Queen: This guy or group of guys will be found at the clubs, Raves, bars, gay events, of the gay community. It is good to have a friend to know what is going on in the community.
  • Church divas: The guy is holy, fronting as if they love God and do right by Him; but they have drama and are sometimes DL; sometimes a hypocrite. They love to sing but are usually on all apps.
  • Always Online gay/ App Whore: Constantly on the apps and talking to all the guys to find some “playtime”.
  • Drama queen: This guy won’t admit to it but they love drama; they either started it or are watching it. Be very cautious.
  • Fashion Guy: This guy is usually fem or borderline who loves everything under the sun fashion and know what to where and what not to where.
  • “Str8” gay: The man that is DL but know what is going on everywhere with gay people , on the low.
  • Bi Guy: the bisexual man that likes the best of both worlds
  • Drag Queen:  The true divas of the gay community; they are the guys that dress up for the coins and are usually in the scene of it all.
  • Bears: This guy is a hairy man; also Otters is a lesser version of a bear.
  • Leather: This guy loves leather on and off and on others; sometimes they like S&M; whips and chains. It just depends.
  • Daddies: Sugar daddy— A gay man used only for the need for money; Silver daddy is an older man with with lots of grey hair. They both come in different sizes.
  • Thick Dudes: This term is tricky. It is the well rounded guy who has a thick chest, legs, arms, and sometimes a thick booty; but not fat looking.
  • Chubs: This is fatter man than a thick dude.
  • Cubs: This a lesser thicker dude but has more meat than a twink.
  • Pups: This goes with pups and pup handler. A pup is a guy who submits to his pup handler and does his every command.  Usually found with guys with chains around there neck and a lock.
  • Masters: This goes with the term “sir” and “boy”.  The Sir is like a top that has a boy (bottom) that he controls, sexually. The boy does what his Sir or father says.

I am sure I missed  something in the process. This is a good start for you. Now you won’t be lost in conversation. In case you run into a guy that wants you to be his pup. LOL

Now don’t get me wrong, you as an individual could be or like all of this or most of this. You are not restricted to anything that you feel does not make YOU happy. BE YOU! This is just labels in the community.

Love you always and I love my gays. Leave your comments!

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G.Y.M. Week 8 -Gay Apps and Infamous Catfishing

The one question to be asked in almost every conversation on  gay app! No Lie!

This topic I know too well and I have seen, experience, been up and down with these apps. It is good in some areas and horrible in others.

Let me not deter you from finding your “sweetheart”  but I do want to speak REALITY with this topic. I’m sure all my gays can relate to what is about to be said:

The gay apps that are out as of 2017: Jack’D, Hornet, A4A, BGC, Grindr, Boyahoy, Scruff, Daddyhunt, Gaydar, Romeo, Surge, Tindr,  and Grizzly.

I have been on ALL. I feel like such a whore but since I was 18 finding a “potential mate” is hard because guys are not trusting or truthful.  Not everyone but some.

You can find some great friends on gay apps BUT some only want to be your friend to get in your pants.

I always recommend using your gaydar  to find a guy/friend in public places/events, if you can.

The apps just makes it faster based on your geographical location and if you are shy guy. Which is amazing but there are many people who don’t say who they are on the apps.  Like a snapshot before you get to the real dude inside.

You MUST weed through the lies and deception.  If the guy can’t give you more than 10 pictures, a video, video chat, or call you on the phone…..DO NOT CONTINUE TO WASTE YOUR TIME!

CAT-FISHING someone else is a real epidemic but thanks to smart phones you can’t do but so much moving forward.

There is so much more to this topic is is astonishing the stories and outcomes.

BE CAREFUL!

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G.Y.M. Week 7: Coming Out Part 2

 


Lol  You could do that but it could have an adverse effect. lol

Welcome to another week of G.Y.M.!

This week we have the infamous coming out. If you ready,  then congratulations on living your life the way you see fit and not giving a rats booty about who you want to sleep with because what you do in the comfort of your bed is your business.

Some parents are not “accepting” of there son being gay.  Some other family members aren’t either. It’s okay. They don’t get YOU!

The easiest way to come out is to find the person, that kind of knows you are or they are suspicious that you are gay.

Again, you could do what is in the picture above but the effect of that is your parents later wanting you to go back to sleeping with girls.  It isn’t their business!

The meaning of coming out is to be free of “chains”. Being grounded for so long and now you can finally fly. GET YO LIFE!

TRUST ME IT HELPS TO REACH OUT.  ALWAYS HERE!

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G.Y.M. -Week 6: Gay Sex Basics

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Firstly, the gay community is vast and full of life. There are many elements to how a person has sex.

Secondly: When two men have sex, it is the same as a man and a woman having sex: minus the pussy and add a dick LOL!

Here are let me break it down to you:

Tops:  A top is the man in the relationship (the man that penetrates the hole….for straights it is the man that fucks the woman). The top never wants to be fucked but sometimes he likes to suck dick and sometimes get his asshole ate out.  Most of the time, the top is the dominant one in the relationship but in some gay community’s it doesn’t matter who is dominant and who isn’t.  Word to the wise….keep a clean dick…no one wants to smell pickles while going down on that.

Vers Tops: These are the tops that on occasion likes to be penetrated in the booty. These are found in most gay relationships because it is pleasuring each other. He is willing to be fucked in the ass but he loves some good booty.  So a vers top is about 80% top and 20% vers (sometimes 90-10%).

Versatile (Vers): This man is everything sexually. He loves the booty and loves dick in his booty as well.   Being versatile is a beautiful thing and finding another is even better. Flip-flop!

Vers Bottoms: This man is the reverse of Vers Tops. He would rather be fucked then to penetrate another guy but is willing to do it on occasion. This person also goes by the 80-20% and/or 90-10%.

Bottoms: This man loves him some dick. These gay men just like to be fucked in the asshole anytime (as long as it is clean; see advice below). He never wants to fuck…..he loves a nice size dick in him.

Bottom Advice: Speaking of cleaning, bottoms must have a clean booty! I cannot say this enough. Being a bottom is work. You must clean out your hole before penetration because as we all know, it still is the booty hole and shit does come out. As a bottom you must eat well or something may be found on the tops dick and no one wants to see that.  To be skilled at it, a good enema is okay sometimes (follow proper instructions).  Also, you can buy an anal douche and that really blows it out. This is what they use in the porn industry.

Oral folks: These people just love to suck dick and eat ass. Sometimes there may be some dick rubbing (frotting) or ass rubbing. Dick rubbing (Frot sex) is just rubbing each other dicks and finding sensation from that. Ass rubbing is when one guy will lie down or be bent over and the other guy will rub his dick between his butt cheeks/ass and get aroused/sensation.

Masturbation: Every gay man stroke his meat and straight dudes do it too. There is nothing wrong with getting that white cream and relaxing some stress. Use lube or lotion for good feeling.

This is just the start, there’s a whole world to talk about later in the coming weeks. Always remember to wrap it up as safe sex is important.

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G.Y.M. Week 5-DL vs Gay: Coming Out Part 1

 

At this point, you have learned quite a bit about the being gay. Congrats on reaching this point.

Ultimately, this is your life decision to make. You have two options:

You can either come out and live life (because nobody cares). 

OR

You can be “gay” behind closed doors i.e. DL (down low). I can’t tell you what to do in this decision because there are so many people in the world with so many different situations that it is hard to nail it down. 

The problem with DL men is that they can’t see themselves being labeled as “gay”. The picture is of a man who love a man but living a double life.  Even with hetrosexuals, there are men who love woman and pussy, but also love men on the side. (It is very real!)

I personally think being DL is a drama filled situation that is about to explode in their face. Who gets hurt in the end? Both parties. The unfulfillment of not having someone and not feeling happy with yourself. It is painful and I know the men out there are struggling with this battle everyday.

Some people have to be gay behind closed doors because of their career: Singers, actors, officers, government, etc; the list goes on and on. This is a stigma that a “gay” can’t be above adversity. Contrary to popular demand, people have sex with whoever they want to and you my friend will never know.

Also, their are gay men living their life away from their “aggressive families”. These are the ones that are DL with family only because if the family knew he was gay, they would disown him or kill him.

We will touch on that in Part 2. For now, ponder on the route YOU want to take to happiness.

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G.Y.M. Week 4 -Being Bullied is Tough

“FAGGOT!”

The one word I believe every young gay man has experienced growing up. It is also the one word that is affects a large amount of gay men till this day. It is familiar with the same: if a white man calls a black person a “nigger”; It is also a word with little people hating the word “midget”.

“IT’S NOT FAIR!”

What about these?

  • “FAG”
  • “you gay”
  • “fruity ass”
  • “hey! he has a girl voice”
  • “gay ass nigga”
  • “queer”
  • “punk”
  • “sissy”
  • “aids case”
  • “You walk like a girl”
  • “You act like a girl”
  • “God will kill you”

Sounds familiar?

Trust me, I feel your pain. I have cried many times over and over. Not knowing who to turn to for advice or who would look out for you because let’s face it, school days are hard. These words hurt to the core and it saddens me that people like yourself are still being bullied by either girls or guys because you are a little different then them. They are just self-centered  and focused on being popular.

You are MORE than the word “faggot”. You have to learn to stand up for yourself at any cost. When you learn this, it will become so much easier to be yourself in light of adversity from your peers; in school and out of school.

I know it is hard. Just know, it is the universe’s way of strengthen you for a later battle. Maybe you are not a fighter, but eventually you will get tired of the name calling.

STAND UP against those dudes/girls and you will feel better, I promise you.

Don’t be afraid to reach out and talk to somebody. Email me and we can discuss whatever is bothering you.

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G.Y.M.- Week 3: Exploring the Itch

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I truly understand what you might be thinking. Who is this guy?

I am the guy that is going to change the way you think about who you are about to become.

You can be whatever you want but you have to have knowledge to get you through to the next level.

This week’s topic is the feeling you might have. In a way, when you are alone, you may feel ‘aroused’ and your penis may get hard. Notice what you are watching or thinking about.

Trust me, we have all been there:

  • Going to the store and looking at the underwear models on the packaging
  • Sometimes looking under the maneken
  • Other young men smile at you and it activates ‘the man downstairs’
  • Staying up late to catch real sex on HBO (that was me lol)
  • To browse the internet on your parents tablet or computer (to find topics like this or porn….by the way click here to explore the itch)
  • Sneaking away to read a very ‘graphic’ magazine with the door shut in your room/bathroom
  •  Asking your school mates about sex and what it feels like

Speaking of that last bullet, it is okay to masturbate. Nothing is wrong with getting off. You are young and you need to have some alone time when you do it. My only caution is don’t rub it too hard to the point where it is red or getting swollen. Do not put it in any hole of wood. Don’t kill the “the man downstairs”.

There are 2 other elements of “the man downstairs” but that’s for a later topic. 🙂

As always this is a bully free zone, you have to love yourself first and ride with the journey.

I am here for you always.

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G.Y.M. Week 2-Coming to Terms


Okay young spirit of joy, that you are. Again, it is okay to express yourself in this area. No judgement or faughts coming from this site. You are completely safe in this bubble.

The first thing is knowing yourself. Who are you?

  • Do you like to put on your mom’s scarves, heels, wear towels or wash rags, on your head?
  • Do you like to play with barbie dolls or cabbage patch kids?
  • Do you like the idea of makeup and doing hair?
  • How are your mannerisms? Your body movement?
    • Do you like to switch when you walk?
    • Do you get picked on for who you are in school?
    • Do the kids make fun of you and call you ‘gay’?
  • Ultimate question: What arouses you?
    • I ask this because it is usually something very quiet that you are keeping to yourself.
    • Do you feel a higher attraction towards another boy or a man verses a girl/woman?
  • If you are aroused by another boy/man,
    • Which part arouses you? His body, bulge, butt, lips, eyes, legs, arms.

For now, if you have answered yes, a sentence, or a paragraph….my friend, you are gay to some degree. This is also, in a small way, how “gaydar” works and understanding who might be gay or who might not be gay.

Again, ‘gay’ is just a sexual preference, you could be bisexaul and don’t even know it but this is the start of our journey together. You have my support 100%. You are not alone in this.

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