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P.S.A. [Video] –When a Man Loves YOU

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Time and time again, both hetrosexual and homosexual: when you really love someone you feel it.

Not the feeling that you have for them but you can feel and SEE how they treat you.

Enough said!




Peace and Blessings be upon you.

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G.Y.M. Week 9 -What Gay are you?

Let’s have some fun this week. You will never know what gay are you until you have experienced something in the previous post. To give you a taste, let’s dive in.
Firstly, know your gaydar! This goes back to a previous post about knowing body movements and mannerisms. This will help you understand if someone is gay. (That’s for all you hetrosexuals people lurking about as well; knowledge is power)

Moving forward, What gay are you?
  • Just Gay: a normal gay man just living his life; not in the “scene” or on apps but does social media every now and again. He is about his personal growth.
  • Gym Bunny: This guy is usually thick headed and spends majority of his day thinking about working out and actually working out. He usually works at the gyms.
  • Stud Gay: This guy workouts, has a swimmers build. This guy is every example in porn. A guy with light muscles and a nice booty.
  • Frat Guy: This is a college guy. He is apart of his frat and likes dudes, drinking beer and sports.
  • Suit and Tie: The corporate guy with all the success.
  • Gaymer: The guy is mostly into his games and playing with other gamers. Usually will play with anyone gay or straight. A pretty normal geekish guy.
  • Geekish Gay: A guy who likes anything weird with sci-fi characters, superheros, comic cons, etc. Usually relates best with gamers.
  • Country Guy: The southern guy or Texan, that loves the outdoors, farms, hat, boots, and getting dirty. Usually has an accent and does things the natural way.
  • “Virgin” gay: This is a small guy, twink size, who lies about being a virgin but gets done every other night.
  • Twinks: This guy is very small and skinny. Usually weights less than 120 lbs; smooth body. Can be easily found in porns.
  • Scene Queen: This guy or group of guys will be found at the clubs, Raves, bars, gay events, of the gay community. It is good to have a friend to know what is going on in the community.
  • Church divas: The guy is holy, fronting as if they love God and do right by Him; but they have drama and are sometimes DL; sometimes a hypocrite. They love to sing but are usually on all apps.
  • Always Online gay/ App Whore: Constantly on the apps and talking to all the guys to find some “playtime”.
  • Drama queen: This guy won’t admit to it but they love drama; they either started it or are watching it. Be very cautious.
  • Fashion Guy: This guy is usually fem or borderline who loves everything under the sun fashion and know what to where and what not to where.
  • “Str8” gay: The man that is DL but know what is going on everywhere with gay people , on the low.
  • Bi Guy: the bisexual man that likes the best of both worlds
  • Drag Queen:  The true divas of the gay community; they are the guys that dress up for the coins and are usually in the scene of it all.
  • Bears: This guy is a hairy man; also Otters is a lesser version of a bear.
  • Leather: This guy loves leather on and off and on others; sometimes they like S&M; whips and chains. It just depends.
  • Daddies: Sugar daddy— A gay man used only for the need for money; Silver daddy is an older man with with lots of grey hair. They both come in different sizes.
  • Thick Dudes: This term is tricky. It is the well rounded guy who has a thick chest, legs, arms, and sometimes a thick booty; but not fat looking.
  • Chubs: This is fatter man than a thick dude.
  • Cubs: This a lesser thicker dude but has more meat than a twink.
  • Pups: This goes with pups and pup handler. A pup is a guy who submits to his pup handler and does his every command.  Usually found with guys with chains around there neck and a lock.
  • Masters: This goes with the term “sir” and “boy”.  The Sir is like a top that has a boy (bottom) that he controls, sexually. The boy does what his Sir or father says.

I am sure I missed  something in the process. This is a good start for you. Now you won’t be lost in conversation. In case you run into a guy that wants you to be his pup. LOL

Now don’t get me wrong, you as an individual could be or like all of this or most of this. You are not restricted to anything that you feel does not make YOU happy. BE YOU! This is just labels in the community.

Love you always and I love my gays. Leave your comments!




Peace and Blessings be upon you.

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G.Y.M. -Week 6: Gay Sex Basics

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Firstly, the gay community is vast and full of life. There are many elements to how a person has sex.

Secondly: When two men have sex, it is the same as a man and a woman having sex: minus the pussy and add a dick LOL!

Here are let me break it down to you:

Tops:  A top is the man in the relationship (the man that penetrates the hole….for straights it is the man that fucks the woman). The top never wants to be fucked but sometimes he likes to suck dick and sometimes get his asshole ate out.  Most of the time, the top is the dominant one in the relationship but in some gay community’s it doesn’t matter who is dominant and who isn’t.  Word to the wise….keep a clean dick…no one wants to smell pickles while going down on that.

Vers Tops: These are the tops that on occasion likes to be penetrated in the booty. These are found in most gay relationships because it is pleasuring each other. He is willing to be fucked in the ass but he loves some good booty.  So a vers top is about 80% top and 20% vers (sometimes 90-10%).

Versatile (Vers): This man is everything sexually. He loves the booty and loves dick in his booty as well.   Being versatile is a beautiful thing and finding another is even better. Flip-flop!

Vers Bottoms: This man is the reverse of Vers Tops. He would rather be fucked then to penetrate another guy but is willing to do it on occasion. This person also goes by the 80-20% and/or 90-10%.

Bottoms: This man loves him some dick. These gay men just like to be fucked in the asshole anytime (as long as it is clean; see advice below). He never wants to fuck…..he loves a nice size dick in him.

Bottom Advice: Speaking of cleaning, bottoms must have a clean booty! I cannot say this enough. Being a bottom is work. You must clean out your hole before penetration because as we all know, it still is the booty hole and shit does come out. As a bottom you must eat well or something may be found on the tops dick and no one wants to see that.  To be skilled at it, a good enema is okay sometimes (follow proper instructions).  Also, you can buy an anal douche and that really blows it out. This is what they use in the porn industry.

Oral folks: These people just love to suck dick and eat ass. Sometimes there may be some dick rubbing (frotting) or ass rubbing. Dick rubbing (Frot sex) is just rubbing each other dicks and finding sensation from that. Ass rubbing is when one guy will lie down or be bent over and the other guy will rub his dick between his butt cheeks/ass and get aroused/sensation.

Masturbation: Every gay man stroke his meat and straight dudes do it too. There is nothing wrong with getting that white cream and relaxing some stress. Use lube or lotion for good feeling.

This is just the start, there’s a whole world to talk about later in the coming weeks. Always remember to wrap it up as safe sex is important.




Peace and Blessings be upon you.

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G.Y.M. Week 4 -Being Bullied is Tough


The one word I believe every young gay man has experienced growing up. It is also the one word that is affects a large amount of gay men till this day. It is familiar with the same: if a white man calls a black person a “nigger”; It is also a word with little people hating the word “midget”.


What about these?

  • “FAG”
  • “you gay”
  • “fruity ass”
  • “hey! he has a girl voice”
  • “gay ass nigga”
  • “queer”
  • “punk”
  • “sissy”
  • “aids case”
  • “You walk like a girl”
  • “You act like a girl”
  • “God will kill you”

Sounds familiar?

Trust me, I feel your pain. I have cried many times over and over. Not knowing who to turn to for advice or who would look out for you because let’s face it, school days are hard. These words hurt to the core and it saddens me that people like yourself are still being bullied by either girls or guys because you are a little different then them. They are just self-centered  and focused on being popular.

You are MORE than the word “faggot”. You have to learn to stand up for yourself at any cost. When you learn this, it will become so much easier to be yourself in light of adversity from your peers; in school and out of school.

I know it is hard. Just know, it is the universe’s way of strengthen you for a later battle. Maybe you are not a fighter, but eventually you will get tired of the name calling.

STAND UP against those dudes/girls and you will feel better, I promise you.

Don’t be afraid to reach out and talk to somebody. Email me and we can discuss whatever is bothering you.




Peace and Blessings be upon you.

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Learning to be Single

Even though I had a rough break up recently, I am truly learning how to be single.

Learning the essence of doing things on my own.

Not having a man around to be by my side, come home too, to watch over, to care for.

I have always been in a relationship. I don’t know if God is giving me this time to reflect and renew myself for a deeper future . . . .

. . . .Actually, I think HE might be setting me up in that manner. I need to understand myself and recognize real vs need vs want.

It is hard sometimes because loneliness does set in, but I am dealing with it the best way I can and stay focus on my greatest gift that I have and that is to love myself first and harness my craft.

For my singles, how do you deal with your day to day?

Comments welcomed!

7 Tips for Increasing your Happiness

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  1. Do the things that you find fulfilling, not just the things that bring external rewards (like recognition or money)
  2. Think of ways to increase the happiness of others, and you’ll find that you feel happier, and good about yourself.
  3. Smile when you can as the research shows that faking happiness can help improve your mood as well.
  4. Choose to let go of regrets and the things that bring you down. Try and focus on what’s good, and what is positive, instead.
  5. Relax, slow your pace, and start enjoying “little things”.
  6. Switch your cell phone, your ipad and your laptop off … and enjoy being free of technology.
  7. Change your routine, try new things, and move outside your comfort zone – doing that helps increase the flow of dopamine (the “feel good” hormone).

Which baby are you?



Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive. Down-to-Earth. Stubborn. Repost this in 5 mins and you will meet someone new in 8 days that will perfectly balance your personality.


Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. Sexiest out of everyone. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest And loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Horny. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions. Repost this in 5 mins and you will talk to someone new and realize that you are a perfect match.


Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Great kisser. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Observant and assesses others. If you repost this in the next 5 mins, you will meet your new love in 8 days.


Suave and compromising. Funny and humorous. Stubborn. Very talkative. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal. Does work well with others. Very confidant. Sensitive. Positive Attitude. Thinking generous. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Able to cheer everyone up and/or make them laugh. Able to motivate oneself and others. Understanding. Fun to be around. Outgoing. Hyper. Bubbly personality. Secretive. Boy/girl crazy. Loves sports, music, leisure and traveling. Systematic. Hot but has brains. If you repost this in 5 mins, a cutie that’s caught your eye will introduce themselves and you will realize that you are very much alike in the next 2 days.


Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves traveling. Dislike being at home. Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking. High-spirited. If you repost this in the next 5 minutes, you will become close to someone you do not speak too much in the next 4 days.


You’ve got the best personality and are an absolute pleasure to be around. You love to make new friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirt and more than likely have an a very attractive partner. a wicked hottie. It is also more than likely that you have a massive record collection. You have a great choice in films, and may one day become a famous actor/actress yourself – heck, you’ve got the looks for it!!! IN the next 6 days you will meet someone that may possibly become one of your closest friends, if you repost this in 5 minutes.


Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people’s feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. spazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover. Repost this in the next 5 mins and your reputation will boost someway in the next 12 days


Outgoing personality. takes risks. feeds on attention. No self-control. Kind hearted. Self-confident. Loud and boisterous. VERY revengeful. Easy to get along with and talk to. Has an “every thing’s peachy” attitude. Likes talking and singing. Loves music. Daydreamer. Easily distracted. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination. Loves to be loved. Hates studying. in need of “that someone”. Longs for freedom. Rebellious when withheld or restricted. Lives by “no pain no gain” caring. Always a suspect. Playful. Mysterious. “charming” or “beautiful” to everyone. stubborn. curious. Independent. Strong willed. A fighter. Repost in 5 mins and you will meet the love of your life sometime next month.


Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people’s problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends. Enjoys to make love. Emotional. Stubborn. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivates oneself and others. Loves to travel and explore. Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can understand. If you do not repost this in the next 5 mins, someone very close to you will become mad at you in the next 8 days.


Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the center. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn’t pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Unpredictable. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them all. repost this in 5 mins or you will not meet the love of your life for 10 years.


Trustworthy and loyal. Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at times. Knows how to have fun. Sexy and mysterious. Everyone is drawn towards your inner and outer beauty and independent personality. Playful, but secretive. Very emotional and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people easily and very social in a group. Fearless and independent. Can hold their own. Stands out in a crowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, the greatest men are born in this month. If you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind. Repost in 5 mins & you will excel in a major event coming up sometime this month.


This straight-up means you are the most good-looking person possible… Better than all of these other months! Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitive in everything. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Has that someone always on his/her mind. Talkative. Daydreamer.Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding. Able to show character. One guy/girl kind of person. Loveable. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. Loves music. Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive.

Rule of Thumb

It’s like this…..
Relationships are HARD!!!!!!!
There is no rule book on what to do how to act outside of the norms ( be loyal, don’t cheat, love each other unconditionally) but anything else…. You have to make the rules as you go along… The one thing I do know is: you have to love, have communication, laugh, cry, hug, hold each other, and most importantly remember what brought you together cause if you can’t remember that than it’s a true lost cause…..

Enough said

HOOD TRANSLATIONS 101 2016 Version

#1 “I’m round da corner.” = I’m 30-45 minutes away

#2 “We in dis Bitch!” = We will be attending the event

#3 Bit*h tha fu*k or Bit*h TF” = What did you say to me? I didn’t quite here you correctly, say it one more time before I go off.

#4 “You mad or nah?” = “it amuses me that your’e angered by what just occurred when it didn’t seem like a big deal to me

#5 “you wasn’t with me shootin in the gym” = you did not contribute to my current success in any way, shape or form

#6 Where dey do dat at? = What type of establishment allows behavior of that sort?

#7 Im Bout To Go Ham = If you say 1 more thing that displeases me. I shall be forced to take disciplinary actions

#8 “I got da whip”= My mother was kind enough to let me use the car.

#9 You Tryna Chill? = I Really Want To Engage In Sexual Activity With You But If I Said That You Might Say No

#10 “I’m chillin tonight” = My current financial situation is not budgeted for extra curricular activity.”

# 11 “you aint bout that life” = your living standards are not fit for the situation at hand!

#12 Sh*t just got real! = The situation has escalated to the highest point of seriousness & is no longer a laughing matter!!

Pathways 7: A trip in the future

Hey everyone,

I am planning a trip SOMEWHERE for my 30th birthday around March 29, 2016. I am having trouble deciding where to go.

Here is my list:

  • Alberta, Canada
  • Seattle, WA
  • San Francisco, CA

These are my top 3, as I know the weather is either going to be nice or cold but either way I always get away for my birthday.

Give me some advice, I am dying to read them.