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G.Y.M. -Week 6: Gay Sex Basics

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Firstly, the gay community is vast and full of life. There are many elements to how a person has sex.

Secondly: When two men have sex, it is the same as a man and a woman having sex: minus the pussy and add a dick LOL!

Here are let me break it down to you:

Tops:  A top is the man in the relationship (the man that penetrates the hole….for straights it is the man that fucks the woman). The top never wants to be fucked but sometimes he likes to suck dick and sometimes get his asshole ate out.  Most of the time, the top is the dominant one in the relationship but in some gay community’s it doesn’t matter who is dominant and who isn’t.  Word to the wise….keep a clean dick…no one wants to smell pickles while going down on that.

Vers Tops: These are the tops that on occasion likes to be penetrated in the booty. These are found in most gay relationships because it is pleasuring each other. He is willing to be fucked in the ass but he loves some good booty.  So a vers top is about 80% top and 20% vers (sometimes 90-10%).

Versatile (Vers): This man is everything sexually. He loves the booty and loves dick in his booty as well.   Being versatile is a beautiful thing and finding another is even better. Flip-flop!

Vers Bottoms: This man is the reverse of Vers Tops. He would rather be fucked then to penetrate another guy but is willing to do it on occasion. This person also goes by the 80-20% and/or 90-10%.

Bottoms: This man loves him some dick. These gay men just like to be fucked in the asshole anytime (as long as it is clean; see advice below). He never wants to fuck…..he loves a nice size dick in him.

Bottom Advice: Speaking of cleaning, bottoms must have a clean booty! I cannot say this enough. Being a bottom is work. You must clean out your hole before penetration because as we all know, it still is the booty hole and shit does come out. As a bottom you must eat well or something may be found on the tops dick and no one wants to see that.  To be skilled at it, a good enema is okay sometimes (follow proper instructions).  Also, you can buy an anal douche and that really blows it out. This is what they use in the porn industry.

Oral folks: These people just love to suck dick and eat ass. Sometimes there may be some dick rubbing (frotting) or ass rubbing. Dick rubbing (Frot sex) is just rubbing each other dicks and finding sensation from that. Ass rubbing is when one guy will lie down or be bent over and the other guy will rub his dick between his butt cheeks/ass and get aroused/sensation.

Masturbation: Every gay man stroke his meat and straight dudes do it too. There is nothing wrong with getting that white cream and relaxing some stress. Use lube or lotion for good feeling.

This is just the start, there’s a whole world to talk about later in the coming weeks. Always remember to wrap it up as safe sex is important.

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Chapter Love


By: Marcus J. King

Peace within the heart,

as love seals its kiss.

Love at first site,

with puppy love,

Go hand in hand.

As two beings take a journey to marriage,

the many chapters that lay before thee,

are immersed in emotions and awaken

the inner spirit again.

To be honored,

in a way that only you two know how.

No boundary can break

the spirit of true love.

 

 

At this point, you have learned quite a bit about the being gay. Congrats on reaching this point.

Ultimately, this is your life decision to make. You have two options:

You can either come out and live life (because nobody cares). 

OR

You can be “gay” behind closed doors i.e. DL (down low). I can’t tell you what to do in this decision because there are so many people in the world with so many different situations that it is hard to nail it down. 

The problem with DL men is that they can’t see themselves being labeled as “gay”. The picture is of a man who love a man but living a double life.  Even with hetrosexuals, there are men who love woman and pussy, but also love men on the side. (It is very real!)

I personally think being DL is a drama filled situation that is about to explode in their face. Who gets hurt in the end? Both parties. The unfulfillment of not having someone and not feeling happy with yourself. It is painful and I know the men out there are struggling with this battle everyday.

Some people have to be gay behind closed doors because of their career: Singers, actors, officers, government, etc; the list goes on and on. This is a stigma that a “gay” can’t be above adversity. Contrary to popular demand, people have sex with whoever they want to and you my friend will never know.

Also, their are gay men living their life away from their “aggressive families”. These are the ones that are DL with family only because if the family knew he was gay, they would disown him or kill him.

We will touch on that in Part 2. For now, ponder on the route YOU want to take to happiness.

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G.Y.M. Week 4 -Being Bullied is Tough

“FAGGOT!”

The one word I believe every young gay man has experienced growing up. It is also the one word that is affects a large amount of gay men till this day. It is familiar with the same: if a white man calls a black person a “nigger”; It is also a word with little people hating the word “midget”.

“IT’S NOT FAIR!”

What about these?

  • “FAG”
  • “you gay”
  • “fruity ass”
  • “hey! he has a girl voice”
  • “gay ass nigga”
  • “queer”
  • “punk”
  • “sissy”
  • “aids case”
  • “You walk like a girl”
  • “You act like a girl”
  • “God will kill you”

Sounds familiar?

Trust me, I feel your pain. I have cried many times over and over. Not knowing who to turn to for advice or who would look out for you because let’s face it, school days are hard. These words hurt to the core and it saddens me that people like yourself are still being bullied by either girls or guys because you are a little different then them. They are just self-centered  and focused on being popular.

You are MORE than the word “faggot”. You have to learn to stand up for yourself at any cost. When you learn this, it will become so much easier to be yourself in light of adversity from your peers; in school and out of school.

I know it is hard. Just know, it is the universe’s way of strengthen you for a later battle. Maybe you are not a fighter, but eventually you will get tired of the name calling.

STAND UP against those dudes/girls and you will feel better, I promise you.

Don’t be afraid to reach out and talk to somebody. Email me and we can discuss whatever is bothering you.

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Invasion from Others

When someone is all in your bubble you get like the matrix on they ass. LMAO

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Peace and Blessings be upon you.

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Fight Your Soul

By: Marcus J. King

Your spirit is not with me,

why do I battle to keep you away?

You was nothing to me or so you said.

There are no words to leave but the pain you caused on me

I hate you with so much passion

And you still live to haunt me.

I don’t care what you want.

You wanted what you desired,

And now I’m doing me 1000%.

Who are you to come into my brain

And fuck with unnecessary emotions

Things I put away,

Locked it up, and sealed it with a key

Who are you to come into my space and try to change how I think and feel

You are nothing to me.

You had your chance so, move… the fuck…. on.

Thank you for showing up,

At the wrong time when my life is better than yours.

“Cause even in the afterlife imma fight your soul,

Cause the second time around, I’ll be twice as cold”

 

Peace and Blessings be upon you.

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I truly understand what you might be thinking. Who is this guy?

I am the guy that is going to change the way you think about who you are about to become.

You can be whatever you want but you have to have knowledge to get you through to the next level.

This week’s topic is the feeling you might have. In a way, when you are alone, you may feel ‘aroused’ and your penis may get hard. Notice what you are watching or thinking about.

Trust me, we have all been there:

  • Going to the store and looking at the underwear models on the packaging
  • Sometimes looking under the maneken
  • Other young men smile at you and it activates ‘the man downstairs’
  • Staying up late to catch real sex on HBO (that was me lol)
  • To browse the internet on your parents tablet or computer (to find topics like this or porn….by the way click here to explore the itch)
  • Sneaking away to read a very ‘graphic’ magazine with the door shut in your room/bathroom
  •  Asking your school mates about sex and what it feels like

Speaking of that last bullet, it is okay to masturbate. Nothing is wrong with getting off. You are young and you need to have some alone time when you do it. My only caution is don’t rub it too hard to the point where it is red or getting swollen. Do not put it in any hole of wood. Don’t kill the “the man downstairs”.

There are 2 other elements of “the man downstairs” but that’s for a later topic. 🙂

As always this is a bully free zone, you have to love yourself first and ride with the journey.

I am here for you always.

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Monday drama is like…

Sometimes it is just a “hard” day. Don’t let it hit you that hard.

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G.Y.M. Week 2-Coming to Terms


Okay young spirit of joy, that you are. Again, it is okay to express yourself in this area. No judgement or faughts coming from this site. You are completely safe in this bubble.

The first thing is knowing yourself. Who are you?

  • Do you like to put on your mom’s scarves, heels, wear towels or wash rags, on your head?
  • Do you like to play with barbie dolls or cabbage patch kids?
  • Do you like the idea of makeup and doing hair?
  • How are your mannerisms? Your body movement?
    • Do you like to switch when you walk?
    • Do you get picked on for who you are in school?
    • Do the kids make fun of you and call you ‘gay’?
  • Ultimate question: What arouses you?
    • I ask this because it is usually something very quiet that you are keeping to yourself.
    • Do you feel a higher attraction towards another boy or a man verses a girl/woman?
  • If you are aroused by another boy/man,
    • Which part arouses you? His body, bulge, butt, lips, eyes, legs, arms.

For now, if you have answered yes, a sentence, or a paragraph….my friend, you are gay to some degree. This is also, in a small way, how “gaydar” works and understanding who might be gay or who might not be gay.

Again, ‘gay’ is just a sexual preference, you could be bisexaul and don’t even know it but this is the start of our journey together. You have my support 100%. You are not alone in this.

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Watch Out for those Around You

Sometimes you gotta watch your back so you don’t trip over yourself LOL LMAO

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